MELISSA RUSSELL 08.25.18

SERVICES
Some of you might not be familiar with Jewish customs. And even if you are, not all congregations are the same. As our guests we'd like you to be as comfortable as possible — Temple Rodef Shalom strives to welcome everyone — so we've prepared a few common questions and answers.
WHAT TO EXPECT

What does B'nai Mitzvah mean?
You've probably heard the terms bar mitzvah and bat mitzvah before. Melissa and Russell are sharing the ceremony, so we use the plural term, b'nai mitzvah (literally translated as "children of commandments").

If you're not familiar with the bar/bat mitzvah ceremony, the synagogue has a guide for visitors online. The B'nai Mitzvah service marks the transition from childhood to Jewish adulthood. Melissa and Russell will each lead portions of the service, and each will sing verses from the Torah (sacred text).

Where should I go?
Temple Rodef Shalom, 2100 Westmoreland St, Falls Church VA 22043. Complimentary parking is available. If the lot is full and you park on the street, please be mindful of neighbors and their driveways. The main sanctuary is on the upper level of the building.

When should I be there?
Please plan ahead so that you can be seated in the sanctuary before services begin promptly at 10:30 AM on Saturday. We expect the service to end at 12:15 PM, at which time we will host a kiddush lunch for congregants and guests in the Social Hall, which is also on the upper level of the building.

What should I wear?
Temple Rodef Shalom does not post any dress code requirements, but congregants and guests generally wear semi-formal or business attire. If you're unsure, we recommend a skirt or dress with covered shoulders for ladies, and a suit or jacket with slacks for gentlemen.

What should I bring?
You don't need to bring anything with you! Prayer books and kippot (caps) will be available in the sanctuary. For those who bring mobile phones or other electronics, please turn them off before you enter the sanctuary.

What should I do (or NOT do) during the service?
As with many religious services, the Shabbat morning service is a time for prayer and reflection. To follow along, the clergy will prompt you when it is appropriate to sit, stand, read responsively, or sing along. Please be respectful and keep distractions to a minimum throughout the service. Please do NOT applaud or take any photos or video during the service.